I am scared of birthdays. And I don't like the date of mine. It's always in such a busy part of the semester that you're just marking and marking and marking and absolutely have no bandwidth left for thinking about your birthday. And the weather is often quite bad. My sisters have their birthdays in June; I think I've been envious of that since my early youth. But what can you do!
Many months ago, Martin, with his big new house, had said he could host my birthday. And I thought that was a splendid idea. So I later asked him if he still stood by that offer. He did!
Given that hardly any of my friends live at either walking or biking distance, if I organise anything in the evening, by nine everyone is looking at their watch, and probably getting ready to leave. It could be still quite a drive, and I think our night-crawling days are behind us. Martin has such a big house that everyone would be able to stay over. And then you can just have a nice beer at 10 pm if you want, and not worry about anything!
It also helps his living room is (much, much) bigger than mine. I have managed to squeeze seven people in in the past, but that is about the limit. And I didn't intend to invite an awful lot more people than that, but it just is a lot more relaxed at his place.
I was also hoping we could do a walk. It is always nice to get a bit of fresh air and exercise in, and lovely landscapes. And the weather didn't seem to be so bad! The forecast for my actual birthday was rubbish, but not for the day before that.
We would gather at Martin's at noon. My sister and I were the 1st to arrive. Martin was waiting for us in the courtyard. He must have seen us come up the drive! It was good to see him.
Soon after, Susan and Dean showed up as well and a bit later Neil. Unfortunately, Kate texted me to say she was having a stinking cold. That made me sad! I had really hoped she would be there. But if she's ill then that's the end of that.
It was fun to introduce my sister and Neil to the other lot, and each other. They hadn't met any of them! And I think both sides have been a bit curious. But because daylight was short, we just filed into two vehicles and headed for Cwm Eigiau. I had hoped to walk to Llyn Mellynllyn. But it was really windy! Soon it was clear it was a struggle, and we wouldn’t get that far. We made it to the mining related ruins, and sat down there for a bit of lunch. And from there we just went back. We didn't reach the lake. But we had had a bracing walk!
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| Windy walk selfie |
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| Lunch in ruin |
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| We did not go there |
When we got back we had a nice cup of tea. Martin and Sarah had to do some things related to the horses. We just sat in the living room. And what a living room it is! And we started on drinks. I had brought a big bag full of fancy beers.
Later we started on the food. Martin had suggested a bbq, potentially in a barn if the weather required it, but it ended up just being Martin grilling some stuff right by the front door, and bringing it in. And Susan had prepared a beautiful birthday cake, complete with pyroclastics. They sang for me!
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| Beautiful cake! |
After dinner, Susan and Dean left. Those remaining had some more tea, but we didn’t make it a late night. We made ourselves comfortable in one of the annexes.
The next morning I was the first person awake in the annex. I got dressed quietly and sneaked into the house. Sarah was up too. I started preparing breakfast; I had brought croissants-in-tin. Slowly everyone else appeared, and I got more congratulations. Now I was really 50!
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| Making breakfast |
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| A beautiful start of the day |
After breakfast it was time to leave Martin and Sarah to their busy lives. I had had a lovely extended birthday! Even without Kate. But I could now just cruise into this new decade…